As an exotic pet , a tarantula definitely qualifies. In fact, the female of some species have been known to live as long as twenty years! The males usually make it to two years, and spend most of that time in extreme frustration; they are continually trying to escape so they can mate.

Are tarantulas affectionate?

Funny question! Tarantulas are arachnids, and as such are not really known for affection in the normal sense of the word. In fact, you should keep handling them to a minimum. If they spook, squirm and fall from your hands they can be fatally injured. The other result of their skittishness could be injury to you! This can be from a painful bite or from the irritating fine hairs they can flick at you as a means of self-defense.